Maybe you’ve been in this position; single people are asked when they will have a partner, those who already have a potential life partner are asked when they will get married, and those who are married are asked when they will have children. Whether it’s small talk or curiosity, this question can sometimes make someone sad. Especially for those who are married and have not been blessed with children. Even though we don’t know what their condition is or whether they want to have children or not.
This is also what actress Tara Basro experienced. Not even 6 months into her marriage with Daniel Adnan, the actress who played Tanah Jahanam said that she often received questions about when she would get pregnant from people around her.
The 30-year-old actress admits that she hears the question of when she will be pregnant every day and treats it like a broken record.
Tara Basro’s answer was given after one of the netizens on Instagram’s Question Sticker feature asked about Tara’s response to public questions such as when she will have a baby. “Every day I hear this question like a broken record, in person, via DM, via phone, everything,” said the actress who often echoes self-love, on Sunday (13/12).
Tara said she understands that people who ask such questions may not have malicious intentions. However, according to her, it is a habit that really needs to be changed. “But seriously, as much as possible avoid this question unless the person concerned initiates the discussion of this topic, either because they are really pregnant or already know the gender of their child, because this is very personal and sensitive,” she explained.
He also continued that discussing pregnancy is a personal choice for each person because we never know the struggle behind it.
Then, the actress who is famous for the film A Copy of Mind said to position herself as the person being asked the question. It could be that she has made various efforts to have children but there is an unwanted problem. “Can you imagine, there are people who have done everything but are not given, or there are fertilization problems, miscarriages, medical problems and then people just casually ask ‘Oh when are you pregnant?’ ‘Oh are you pregnant?’ Can you imagine how she feels, things like that are not nice to be asked,” she explained. Tara also said that she had an experience beyond her control. At that time, her stomach was touched because it was thought that she was pregnant. Therefore, the habit of being curious should not be continued. This Jakarta-born woman explained that sensitive questions like that also apply to those who often discuss someone’s physical appearance, it could be that the person has made such a big struggle to diet, exercise and even sacrifice happiness, suddenly gets the question “are you pregnant?”
In her statement, Tara Basro had time to answer the pregnancy issue that has recently been circulating.
Recently, Tara Basro was suspected of being pregnant by some netizens. In addition to her fuller body, it was also because Vidi Aldiano had made a joke about it. Tara Basro then corrected the suspicion. The wife of actor Daniel Adnan said that she was not pregnant.
“Also answering for those who asked. Not yet. Thank you for asking. Just pray because pregnancy is like a gift from God. So, only God knows when,” she said.