We already know that the thinking of men and women is very different. It is not surprising that misunderstandings often occur between the two and end up blaming each other. Women think that men are hard to understand. Men also think that women are hard to understand. As women, you may have been curious about what men think about women.
I have interviewed my male friends by asking questions such as, “What is something you can’t ask a woman?” I asked this because there could be something that men want to ask women, but because they are embarrassed or afraid of offending their feelings, they can’t ask.
From several answers that I got from the interview slot gacor maxwin, here are the results that I can summarize:
1. Are you in a relationship with me just for fun or are you serious?
Although they look relaxed in their relationships, it turns out that men also think about their relationships with their partners. Guys can also feel doubtful whether their lover is serious about wanting to be in a relationship with them or just playing around. Because they don’t want themselves to just be used as an outlet.
2. Does he really love me?
This question sentence means almost the same as the point above. And it seems to be in every guy’s and girl’s mind. Maybe the question will make the partner confused about how to answer. Because if you are already in a relationship, of course you love each other, right? But it still feels unsatisfied if you don’t hear your partner say a sweet answer that makes us more confident.
3. How much am I worth to you?
Secretly guys are also curious about how important their role is to their partners. Guys will feel proud if their partners ask for help because they will feel like a ‘reliable partner’. Don’t forget to say thank you after asking for help so your guy feels appreciated for his sacrifice. You can also ‘sweet talk’ a little by throwing out sentences that show how valuable he is to you.
4. Does he like me or not?
What is meant in this sentence refers more to the confusion of guys towards their friends of the opposite sex. Because some of them want to know whether their female friends like them as ‘friends’ or as ‘interests of the opposite sex’.
Actually, questions like this are a bit confusing, because if the guy really thinks of us as ordinary friends, there should be no need to bother thinking about the question. It could be that they are reluctant to ask because they are worried that your friendship will be strained, so they prefer to keep it to themselves.
5. Why do girls suddenly get annoyed when they see us (boys)?
Maybe not ‘suddenly’ annoyed, it could be that the guy behaves or says something that triggers the girl’s annoyance. And we as girls can’t just keep pouting but want to be understood. Guys will certainly be confused if their partner seems annoyed but doesn’t want to explain the reason.
For guys, you can ask gently so that your partner melts. And for girls, if your partner asks ‘why’, you can tell it as it is. Please don’t answer ‘it’s okay’ because it will only confuse your partner and make you even more annoyed.
6. What is the meaning of the words whatever and it’s okay?
I think almost all guys are always confused by questions like this. Because the two words have a very broad meaning, which I myself as a fellow girl am also confused about what they really mean. Guys can’t catch the implied message of the words. So they have trouble how to react when receiving those words from a girl.
7. Why don’t girls want to explain guys’ mistakes?
Often when guys do something that makes their partners angry or upset, when asked “What did I do wrong?” the girl answers “Just think about it yourself”. The guy is confused because he feels ‘not guilty’ or he knows that he has done something wrong but does not know exactly which part is considered wrong.
At times like that, what the guy expects is that his partner just explains what the mistake was and they will apologize. But in the girl’s mind, they deliberately do not want to explain the guy’s mistake so that their partner can truly realize their mistake. Very opposite, right?
8. Why do girls like throwing codes?
Women are always identical with codes. They do it to maintain their prestige and self-esteem. Because they think that if their desires are expressed directly, it will look embarrassing. They give codes also to test how sensitive their partners are.
Well, those are some things that guys can’t ask and can only nest in their minds. Do you have other questions that you can’t express?